Hi, I'm a Chinese American and unlike most of my Chinese friends (or I guess Asian friends in general) I'm dark skinned. I'm not talking about the slightly yellowish dark skin (is that considered fair-skinned?) but naturally tan skin (it's probably close to a light brown color from playing tennis outside a lot). And the thing is, both of my parents are Chinese and are pretty fair skinned and so is my older sister. I tan really fast and sometimes, I feel like a fish out of water when I take pictures with my friends and especially when I'm with my cousins. Majority of my cousins are fair and pale skinned and the cousins who are tan are the guys. I want to become more fair skinned, but I don't know what to do. Or should I even do anything?